jena

    Gender: Female
    Location: cocoa beach, fl
    Relationship: Married
    Orientation: Straight
    Children: Proud Parent
    # of Kids: 2
    Body Type: Some extra baggage
    Religion: Christian - other
    Ethnicity: Alien
    About Me: daughter, wife, mother, grandmother, artist, author, illustrator, licensed massage therapist, beadwork artist
    Music: just about everything...BUT...no hard rock or heavy metal head banging mess
    Movies: Defending Your Life Harvey My Mom's New Boyfriend
    TV: mostly sports
    Books: ACIM, Marianne Williamson, SARK, children's books
    Likes: pasta, happy people, pasta, art, beadwork, pasta, sweet tea
    Dislikes: mean people, itchy eyes, fire ants
    Hobbies: beadwork, quilting, writing, drawing, singing, golfing
    Vices: sweet tea and being a sap
    Virtues: kind, happy, loving, reliable,
    Heroes: Jesus, my mom and dad, mother teresa, my husband

    Grandchildren, Storms and Beadwork

    Saturday, August 23, 2008, 10:28 PM EST [Life]

     "Ma, we make a cake?"

    What grandma can say no to a 3 year old with a request like that? Of course...what he wanted most was to make the decorations on the cake...he wanted blue and green and red and orange and yellow...and stars... 

    My youngest grandson loves the book I wrote for him and my other three grandchildren, "The Adventures of Shorty". His mom says he reads it all the time. So when discussing what we were going to put on the cake, Shorty naturally came up. At first, Shorty was going to be an astronaut (a recently drawn pic for the new Shorty book)...then he decided on tennis...then the astronaut on a skateboard...finally we decided that just Shorty on a skateboard would be best.

    Whenever I bake cake, I bake it in two square pans. One goes home with the grandson's...the other (or what is left of the other after we've all had a piece) stays here. This works out well since my husband and I, though we love cake, don't eat much of it.

    So the first cake (above) was decorated with Shorty on a skateboard...artistic direction by my two grandsons...the eldest helped with the icing...then they both helped with putting the candy stars on it.

    The second cake? I let the oldest decide. A tennis player...he decided on a tennis racquet and tennis balls...that's the one we ate after the kitchen was clean.

    Then it was time for a rousing game of "Simon Says", and a little bit of "Hokey Pokey", both of which the youngest is learning in pre-school. He is doing pretty well with the "Hokey Pokey", but he hasn't quite gotten the gist of "Simon Says"...it's fun none-the-less. We even got grandpa up to do the hokey pokey! 

    School will begin (again) on Monday, and all of them will be busy with that. The oldest is in middle school and trying out for the basketball team; the youngest going to pre-school a couple of days a week; and mom, who is a teaching assistant, going back to work. Dad...keeps us all safe working as an officer at the police department.

    Now...the reason I say school will begin AGAIN on Monday...is the fact that they started last Monday...and then Tropical Storm Fay came through...and stayed...and stayed...and stayed. We had three and a half days of nothing but wind and rain...and they didn't go back to school all week. 

    Fay...never making it to hurricane force...dumped over 30" of rain in some places. There was a lot of flooding and a few tornados. It was nothing like Jeanne from a few years ago in strength, thankfully, but was still devastating for some. In the state of Florida TS Fay was responsible for about a dozen deaths and thousands without power and flooded out of their homes. We are thankful that our only damage was the porch getting about half way flooded and the loss of our air conditioner from Wednesday evening til this morning when it got fixed...thank goodness. It was hot those three days...but nothing like the heat we're going to get now that there will be sunshine...at least til the next one!

    On the first day of the storm we looked out our back door and saw a Great Blue Heron just standing in the wind and rain. (Video below) We weren't sure at first if he was hurt or just disoriented. We finally decided he just "landed" and was afraid to spread his wings to take off for fear he wouldn't be able to control his flight and land in OZ somewhere. After over three hours of standing in the wind and rain out the backdoor...he was gone. Hopefully it was on purpose...if not...I'm sure the Wizard will have a lovely pond for him to fish in!

    During the nearly 4 days of being sequestered in the house due to the storm, beadwork was most certainly a way I entertained myself. (That and the Olympics...great combination!) One of the first things I did was finish a "challenge" from one of the online beading groups I'm in. The challenge was to make a bracelet using the 'peyote' stitch. I had just recently learned it, so I thought it would be a good challenge for me. The tough part...at least for me...was that it was to be "freeform". As much as I try, being anything but symmetrical is difficult. I've managed to do it on a few of my turtles, but usually they are very symmetrical. Now symmetry and "freeform" are not necessarily opposite...but they are not synonomous either. Some of the bracelets the ladies in the challenge produced were exquisite...and not a bit symmetrical. None-the-less...I perservered. Though quite symmetrical...I am assured by the ladies that it is indeed considered "freeform". Which is good...because it's about as freeform as I can get...at least until I learn a bit more about the 'peyote' stitch. 

    I don't know if you can make them out...but the two circles are actually little polyclay faces. The beadwork around the bracelet is not "exactly" the same...but very similar from side to side.  

    The second part of the challenge...to make a ring to match. I didn't use the little cab faces...but used some of the other little beads I used around the bracelet to jazz up the ring. 

    I'm pleased with how they came out. I'll probably put them up for sale on my etsy site ( http://www.atawhisper.etsy.com/ ) . Being a Licensed Massage Therapist, I don't wear much jewelry, (certainly not rings) and in this case, I don't have anything to match these wonderfully bright colors. But I sure had fun making them! 

    Then it was on to the "Pink Ribbon Turtle" Project. Dubbed "Turtles of Hope" by Beadwork Magazine last April, the "Pink Ribbon Turtles" project took on a new level. Originally the turtles were made only by me in memory of my mother, who passed away with Breast Cancer in 2000. After the "blurb" in Beadwork Magazine, another style of PRT was created. With the help of my new friend, Gretchen, we decided that in addition to the turtle(s) I make each year, that we would have a 4 Quadrant Turtle. The turtle was divided into four quadrants and four different artists completed a quadrant. We were thrilled when a second group decided to help with a second 4 Quadrant Turtle. For more information, stay tuned...on October 1st all three turtles will be professionally framed and available in a drawing, ALL proceeds going to Breast Cancer Research. 

    So anyway...when I finished my freeform bracelet and ring challenge, I spent some time putting the quadrants together. (Ralonda, in Texas is in charge of the second turtle). I will give you a little peek of the right side of group 1's turtle...these turtles will be fabulous I know! 

    For more information about "Turtles of Hope" - the "Pink Ribbon Turtle" Project, you can go to (http://www.atawhisper.com/prt.htm). You will find pictures of turtles from previous years, and a bit of the history behind the project. 

    Later on, when the ticket "sales" begin, I will make sure the information for you to get some is right here, along with pictures of all three of the 2008 "Pink Ribbon Turtles".

    During the hottest part of the Tropical Storm that kept us all indoors for a week...when we didn't have air conditioning...I did as little as possible. Everytime I moved I would break into a sweat. So I sat myself in the coolest room in the house and sorted my beads. My husband was amazed...he thinks I have more beads than the bead store. And he only saw the ones in the drawers! I have more in the closet! But anyone who beads...knows that you can't have too many beads!

    The air conditioner has been fixed, the grandson's have visited, I've just eaten my supper, and I think...I'll go do a little beadwork.

     God Bless!

     

     

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    At the Zoo

    Tuesday, August 12, 2008, 03:08 PM EST [Life]

    Isn't she just lovely?

    At our zoo we have a very large giraffe enclosure...large enough for them to roam and run around all day with the small antelopes that are in the enclosure with them.  But if you get there in the morning...before it's just horribly hot out...or very late in the day...you can feed them by hand from a platform that has been built so that you are face to face with these beautiful creatures. 

    When I went recently with two of my grandsons and their mom we had a wonderful day.  If you haven't been to the zoo lately...take a child...even a teenage child...you will have a lot of fun discovering and helping them discover...and sometimes even get upfront and personal...with some of God's 4-legged and winged...even slithery...creatures. 

    *******

     Crucifix Bone

    Can you see it?  On this skull bone from a fish called the sailcat?  Look carefully...it's the crucifix...Christ on the cross.  Isn't it amazing!?  I have two of  these...found on my beach...on either side of my closet door...their simple beauty reminding me of the sacrifice of Christ...for 'a wretch like me'...and his words, "Father forgive them...they know not what they do."

    As I read my Daily Word this morning...I felt it was a message I just needed to share.  I can't...of course...post the exact message due to copyright...but the message was...in my best translation...as follows:

    FORGIVE

    God, I love Your forgiveness...the gentleness in Your spirit...and the love You have for all of your children.

    Today I want to turn to You and Your forgiveness and ask that You help me to forgive others.  I ask that you help me release any hurts I have that I feel were caused by other people...and heal any pain that I have from any slights I perceived were caused by others.

    I want to forgive...and forgive freely...all those who I may resent...all those who I feel have hurt me...all those who I judged...I do this knowing You will grant my prayer and I will be healed of these judgemental thoughts...and that those I forgive will feel Your loving presence in me.  I ask that You help me not to be judgmental now and or the future and that you heal not only my heart of these types of attitudes and feelings...but also those of all Your children.  I know...and believe...that all thoughts of judgement block Your love and Your light.   I ask that Your forgiveness of my judgement of others be so complete that it encompasses every heart and mind...not mine alone.  I ask this so that all relationships may be healed and that friends and family wake up to the knowledge that through You friends and family may be loved, enjoyed and treasured and the value in these relationships is what serves You.  That our loving acceptance of others, and their differences is not to be feared or shunned...but celebrated to Your glory.  It is in these relationships that we grow.

    I ask all these things, God, knowing that You will grant them...perhaps not in our time frame...but in the time frame that will be best for all Your children.  I will try to release all of this to You and not "snatch it back" every time I remember these grievances...and when I remember them I will again ask for Your forgiveness for my judgemental attitude...and in doing so trust You to keep the spirit of forgiveness alive in me and in all of Your children.

    Thank you, God for all of your blessings.

    Amen

    "So when you are offering your gift at the altar, if you remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother or sister, and then come and offer your gift." - Matthew 5:23

    Forgive me your illusions, and release me from punishment for what I have not done.  So will you learn the freedom that I taught by teaching freedom to your brother, and so releasing me.  I am within your holy relationship, yet you would imprison me behind the obstacles you raise to freedom, and bar my way to you.  Yet it is not possible to keep away One Who is there already.  And in Him it is possible that our communication, where we are joined already, wil be the focus of the new perception that will bring light to all the world, contained in you. --- The Obstacles to Peace/The Second Obstacle

    My God grant you peace.

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    JENA,
    THANK YOU,FRIEND.
    IM GLAD I GOT THE NERVE...ACTUALLY I HAD NO CHOICE AT THE MOMENT.. TO POST WHAT I REALLY WAS FEELING BECAUSE I GOT THE HELP I NEEDED.

    YOU WERE KIND TO TAKE THE TIME TO REPLY

    ELLEN

    ellen
    August 14, 2008
    09:27 AM EST